Message about Suicide/Assisted Suicide

Question of the Day:  Message about Suicide/Assisted Suicide from one of my clients.  I received permission to share this information with you all as we both thought it may be helpful.

Question: 

 Hi, April! Happy Spring (almost)! I am interested to know your take, from your intuitive perspective and info from your guides...is there spiritual harm to the "assisted suicide" for people with terminal illness? I feel like we are infinite beings having a human experience in a body, etc. Perhaps we chose to enter that body at a particular time, and perhaps we can choose to leave it when the way we choose??? I don't necessarily think that we are alive so we can suffer. I've read famous psychic authors who have said that they've sensed/experienced the Spirits of those who have committed suicide, and it was a feeling of overwhelming despair...isn't it possible that what they felt was how the person felt before committing the act? I don't buy into the religious arguments... I am very curious as to what you may have experienced or been informed by your guides on this...? Love and Health to you. ~ Kelly

Response:

Hi Kelly,Thanks for reaching out to me about your question. I do not agree with others that say the overwhelming despair they feel from a soul who has committed suicide--that is the human ego placing something upon it...perhaps their own judgment based on world religious beliefs. And perhaps some truth to what you suggest in regards to picking up on how the person was before they left this plane. Often when someone commits suicide that is in essence how they feel.My belief and experience tells me that ALL souls (there is no exception) are welcomed home when they pass over in the same way. I believe once we cross over there is a "debriefing" time for souls to clear/disconnect/heal/recover (we all go through this process suicide or not) so that we can review our life upon the Earth Plane.I believe the only "harm" that can be caused is the guilt/feelings associated with someone who is helping a soul to pass such as in assisted suicide.  That is because of the human feelings we have while in physical bodies.  As souls, we know all is love.  My feeling is that it would be another "life experience" imprinted upon their DNA and may be something for them to work through in this life before moving on and/or something to address in a future lifetime--I believe it depends upon the soul's contracts/journey of this lifetime as to whether or not they are "ready" to address those feelings/guilt/shame/etc.As for the soul itself, I believe there are opt out points along the journey that we choose to take or not. It is not something we are consciously aware of, but something that our higher self/spirit knows. If someone is not meant to go at that point, then I believe they would not go.I hope this covers your question and helps to answer it.Love and light, EstaRa

Feel Free to Ask EstaRa by emailing at april@soulstarhealing.com with your question and I will be happy to answer it here in this forum.  Many blessings of love and light.

Energy Thoughts: Magic Carpet Ride

Hello Everyone,

The last week has been the most uneventful week.  As I say that, I think over the week and about how so much has happened.  The week started off with a Mercury moving direct and changing the energy to one of forward movement and then the week slowed down to a sluggishness (complete halt) on Wednesday, but then by Thursday morning I woke with the change in the air.   Even looked right at my clock that revealed the time as 5:55. If you know Angel Numbers at all, or you know my life at all….that number signifies big change in the air.     The whole day seemed to move more quickly than it has in the last couple of months.  Now, I know I said in last week’s update, that it was the fastest Mercury Retrograde ever in terms of time (the truth is that it FELT like the longest ever), but since moving direct energy hadn’t  picked up as quickly as one would have hoped.  I can honestly tell you that I kept hearing after March 6….well it is after March 6 and yep the day moved through rather quickly yesterday and as I sit down to right this it is nearly noon already and I feel like I just got out of bed.    So momentum is picking up/building rather to the explosive/sprouting of the Equinox coming.   

Some of you are in the trenches of hell as one of my friends recently put it to me and others are beginning to come up for air.  Some days in February, I could tell you I didn’t know which category I was residing in because all day long every day it seemed to changed back and forth, but I am happy to announce that I in the latter.  Air anyone?  I have lots of new, fresh air coming into me…I am so grateful!  I feel completely blessed during these miraculous times on the planet.  So it depends on the goggles you are wearing as to what you are experiencing or seeing, but either way you are definitely going to experience this magic carpet ride.   (It is funny, I find since my concussion that while I may have some other deficits with my brain—it appears that my inner vision has expanded a great deal so you are getting some of my visuals I hope through words, for example, the magic carpet ride—I actually saw  Aladdin on his magic carpet. Assuming that is the correct Disney character.  As I type this, my guides laugh and say, does it matter who was riding the carpet?  You all are! Hahaha)

Where is this magic carpet going to take us?  To the land of dreams.  More specifically, where?   Well, on a global level to times of great change.  Exposure of the breaking (tearing) down of the current financial/government/religious systems that have been controlling how people make their way in this world.   In the next couple of months, all eyes are on us (the Americans) to stand up for what  we believe is truth---we are the only country that hasn’t had the breaking down (well yes it has, but there are many that are asleep to the fact that nothing is working or better yet—in denial of it!)  and the next few months give rise to many opportunities to show the world our dissatisfaction. (If you have followed my journey at all, you will know or at least be aware of the many injustices I have experienced since the car accident of last year; though I know many of you do not know the extent of which, but that is not necessary just yet, but believe me I will be speaking out to the world about how the so called medical system, disability system, etc.)  Pay attention to the news that is going to be exposed and shown to the world about what has been happening. Now, I saw news, but I don’t mean CBS, NBC, ABC---that news is all controlled and does very little at informing you what really is happening in the  world.  For example: I’d like to pique your interest, with the following bits of new stories for you to search on your own.  Iceland jailing their bankers and giving the money back to the people or taking back their government.  Protestors at the White House were arrested simply for protesting fracking.     As an earth human, it is our responsibility to make this world a better place.  Stand in your truth, find others that are standing in the same truth and gather together to transform the world you live in.   It sounds a little daunting of a task to tear down the system that has been in place for so long, but if you ask anyone who is living by way of this broken system you will see that it is anything but working!  If you can get past your old beliefs/ideas/energy that has been driven into you (rammed into your brain) by society you will be able to come to terms with the fact that things are possible outside of the constructs of mainstream belief systems/societal structures, etc.

As for on a more personal level,  the carpet is taking us to the land of our dreams/changes/transformations.  You’ve been dreaming right? Clearing out the old baggage/careers/relationships/people?  (If not, get clearing because the universe doesn’t like to create from sloppiness.)  This really is the time for your dreams to start sprouting up for you/come true!  Magic is happening at the very core of each soul on the planet –whether they are aware of it or not and whether they like it or not….it is their soul’s truth trying to surface.  Remember, last report, I told you that it would be really tough for those that still have work to do(read: those not embracing their inner truths).    Are you making way for your inner truth?  Are you listening to the divine guidance inside of you?  If you are, then you are going to begin to see (if you haven’t already) the sprouting of the long awaited dreams to make their  way into your physical reality.   If you are not listening to your inner truth, then those things that have been preventing you from dreams will make their way more loudly/clearly into your physical reality.    I know most of you know where you lie when it comes to this inner truth issue so you will know what is sprouting up: weeds to be removed or flowers to enjoy. 

Meanwhile, I started this report on Friday morning and never finished so I am finishing this now.  Here in the northeast, we had a beautiful sunshine day yesterday so I needed to get a little sun and spent a lovely day with lovely people for a baby shower (for those of you who really know me that is literally my first social event since my car accident of 2013—it was the perfect day to escape!)  I woke up this morning (Spring ahead was last night) and it feels the energy is shift forward, looks like that caution flag from last week is getting ready to be taken down.   This morning, is yet another beautiful spring day and as I looked out my window…the most beautiful Hawk appeared on the tree outside my window—feeling so blessed.  I feel like he is a the harbinger of good news, magic and miracles!  Spring really is the time of planting and sprouting.  New ideas/truths/beliefs are and will be popping up both globally and even personally.  It might not be time just yet, but start writing those ideas down, storing them for in the very near future you will see the time will be right for you to start manifesting those.  You are going to want to move forward soon and the with the coming energy this month the momentum of breaking free will keep coming up.   The closer we get to the spring the more the energy of wanting to be free will surface.  So no need to worry if you are someone in the category of having things to break free from.  It is time!  I’m getting that image of a magic carpet again...this time with me and my beloved floating freely forward with little puffy hearts as the fuel (popping up all around us—yes my vision looks very animated! Lol) …It really is all about love in this life.  J  I know where my magic carpet ride is taking me…where is yours taking you?   

Energy Thoughts: Something's Gotta Give

Hello Everyone,

Buckle your seatbelts, we are in for quite the ride!   This week the energy is building like water in a dam and once Mercury goes direct, it will feel like the opening of the floodgates.  This can have many meanings for each individual undergoing life's changes at this time.  I was reading a comment that someone on Facebook had posted, it said, "Something's Gotta Give."  Then, I went to look for a movie to watch on HULU, as that is my only source of entertainment, as I do not have television.  The first movie that popped up for me was Something's Gotta Give.  As I type this, I have a vision of a dress that is too tight and is busting out at the seams, personally I like the visual of the dam holding back the waters.  That "something's gotta give" is this new moon energy of Saturday, March 1st (my birthday--hmmm how magical).  And it is giving--giving us the opportunity to set the tone for the next several months.  This is only the beginning of two months of mass energy pushing forward.

I would like to say that all is good and all will be great, but truly it depends where you are on your path to ascension.  Some of you will coast (more like slammed) through to a new beginning; seeing all that you have desired popping up like daffodils as things begin to manifest for you in your physical world. Yes, I do believe that what you have been holding onto as your truth, even to the dismay of others, will begin to manifest itself into your physical reality.   For myself,  I'm holding out for the miracle of physical healing to my body (I still believe it is possible) and because I am in the business of making miracles happen, I know it will.  I'm also expecting the reunion with my twinflame to appear in ways I couldn't even imagine.   The next couple of days is your opportunity to think about your miracle.  What is the miracle that you have been holding onto/waiting for/expecting?   This energy feels promising for those of us living in our hearts; of course, during the next couple months you will need (be required/expected) to remain in your hearts no matter what transpires.  Don't think it's a challenge?  It may be for some.  For others, I'm sure you have had your practice.  Either way, spend time quietly every day to make room for your heart to balance all else.

On the other hand, others may experience the floodgates opening in ways that their feelings begin to emerge from suppression,  placing their heart/soul's truth front and center.  With the heart/soul truth front and center, these people will be required (forced) to learn to navigate through their hearts.   What decisions/choices does that take you to?  When energy like this is being felt, it makes way for all kinds of chaos to appear in your world and the outer world as well.  I looked up the word, chaos, for all of you wondering what the real definition is and yes, it is what you thought: complete disorder and confusion. Now if you've been trying real hard to suppress your feelings/emotions/desires or making yourself fit/stifled/stuck with where you are, you may really begin to feel this way because a new moon in Pisces is all about heart/soul truth.
 
Wherever you are on the spectrum of experiencing this new moon energy, one thing is for sure--no one is immune.  Everyone will begin to experience a little of this moon's magic for better or for worse. I know that doesn't sound so optimistic, but it is all perception, dear ones.

What does this mean in real terms?  There are things that most people don't tell you...there is a whole energy that has kept humanity blocked for sometime, and will continue to do so, if it is allowed.  This is the old paradigm, which has no basis any longer in this energy; except that it is only being supported by those who do not question. Question everything, I say!

For example let's talk about the movie, the Secret. It points us in the direction of the old paradigm, not the new.  Yes, the law of attraction--oh everyone loved that movie, The Secret.  I saw it long before it became popular and I remember thinking, but what about the feelings?  Feelings are the navigation tool and they have to match the words. It isn't as simple as saying what you want and it will manifest; you need to bring yourself into alignment with what it is you desire. You can say, "I am happy." or "I am abundant." or even "I am healthy." all that you want, but until you feel that it is a real possibility (and you work at clearing your energy/karma/lessons regarding those things) then it doesn't happen.  Unfortunately, it creates a self -sabotaging cycle where you beat yourself up not knowing how to change that or worse, you wonder what you did wrong.  In the old paradigm, focusing solely on things outside of yourself (ie saying what you want) gives your power away because you haven't learned to match the feelings with the words.  Old paradigm likes to keep you powerless; leading you to believe you have no power to create the world you want.  I want to tell you that you've done nothing wrong!  You are powerful beyond all measure!  You've come here to learn, clear and pave the road for a new consciousness.  But in order to do so, you must pave the way from your heart (new paradigm) not your head (old paradigm).  So if you have some clearing/karma things to be handled to flow from your heart then get on it, if you are not already.  Once you begin, the process will run smoothly and miraculously.  This is how you bring yourself into alignment with that which you desire.

The beauty of the coming months is that the time is now for manifesting the new earth/your physical reality/the paved road. Those of us that have been doing the growing (work/clearing/craziness) are ready and  have gotten/are getting the visions of the future world we intend to create.  I know for myself, I've had ideas/inventions/inspirations/visions of the new earth I intend to create since 2005, but as I was often told, the time is not right (my guides often told me).  And here we are, nearly 10 years later and Spirit is finally giving me and others the go ahead.  But it isn't a full blown go ahead so much as it is a green light followed up with a caution flag.  If  you know auto racing at all (I used to, in my past life in this lifetime.) then you would know that the two flags together would mean you are going forward, but with caution.  You as a driver are definitely not going very fast, but fast enough to continue on.  That is a perfect analogy for going forward in this energy because before you rebuild something, the old has to be broken (destroyed); therefore, caution is recommended because you don't want to rebuild on a weak foundation. Instead, you want to rebuild the foundation too!



No matter the human chaos around us, it is always possible to stay safe/balanced/at peace within.  Remember this as you go forward and see the changes that will begin to take place in your world, externally or internally. 

With deepest love, honor and respect,
EstaRa


 

Energy Thoughts: It's All About the Heart, Baby!

Hello, my fellow beautiful beings of light.

We've now been under the spell of  Mercury Retrograde for the last couple of weeks. Only one more week to endure the energy of stagnation. Are you feeling it?  Are you having some electronic issues? I've had several which is why this email never gets out there.   Are doubts and fears creeping up?   Are you second guessing your decision to stay and make it work whether it be in a relationship or career?  Are you seeing that your truth from two weeks ago is the same as your truth currently or are you seeing a whole new truth?  What are you noticing that is different.  What are you noticing that is the same strong urge you've been having? Thanks to Mercury all this rethinking/reworking is happening within the realm of humanity at this time. 

I have to laugh, I have been trying to get this Energy Update out to you for several days now. I thought that I would be lucky enough to get it down, but oh no--the universe has had other plans--I felt stuck and unable to do it. Not only does my internet seem to need a reboot every morning, but I myself have been in the goo with ideas. I mean the thoughts/ideas/information has been floating around me/in my head/auric field (thanks to Aquarius air energy--those air signs got to love them for ideas), but it feels as if I have been in a tornado of thoughts/ideas and yet they have had no where to land as of yet due to Mercury Retrograde. It is almost like building up of a storm that will soon set itself down in March, charting a new path for many of us. A good example is that I've even been in the middle of writing four books, yes four, but the kicker is that I have not been able to stick with one of them because it all varies on the way the energy flows in that moment that I sit down to write.  .Sound familiar? 

This energy that we are in is equivalent to a murky swamp of sorts.  More like murky swamp of emotions for some, ideas for others.  All wound up around confusion/lack of direction/focus and waiting for a place to settle (like I just mentioned above).  I bet you are wondering/asking/even pleading to get some clarity.  Unfortunately, we are in this swamp for the next several days.  Can we wade through it to make it to the other side of the shore or are we just embarking on a journey that will go no where?  I think that best sums up the view of life at this time.   Last minute re-engineering of our thoughts/reality is taking place in these last days of Mercury Retrograde.  Yes, the universe is giving you yet again the opportunity to clear/release/let go of/get pulled out of what is not your truth.  Are you ready for this stream of egoic clearing because Pisces energy is all about the heart/soul connection?  If you are not living it/following it/exploring it (the heart, that is) then you are not fully ready to merge into wholeness and the universe will slam you once again.  It is time to make that decision about your life that you have been contemplating, that your heart is leading you to.  It might be a bit more difficult to access the logic of it  as Mercury moves through Pisces, but then again in this new paradigm there is very little room for logic to take place. It is all about the heart, baby! (hahaha--yes, those were the exact words in my head!)   When you are in the Pisces energy, it is easy to want to distract/daydream because that is where your heart and your spirit take you to a place where your eternal truth lies far beyond the boundaries and limits of this third dimensional realm you have come too know, love/hate and appreciate.  But no need to fear, your angels are guiding you and if you ask, quiet your mind, you will get the intuition that you have longed to receive.

Today, seems like a day that I can be verbose, but it will suffice it to say that until next week when Mercury moves forward, expect the unexpected from yourself and others. Oh and  don't judge, simply love it!   For me, it will be just in time for my birthday on March 1st which this year, a miracle is about to happen---I've turned that corner--I've always known it inside of me, the possibility and the truth...now it is time for it to happen. 


For a Mercury Retrograde time is moving quickly by which I can honestly say I am very grateful for---big surprises, momentum and love move forward soon enough!

With Love,
EstaRa

Empower Your Child’s Intuitive Nature

Archangel Michael always reminds me to trust what I know to be true in my heart.  It is often a very difficult thing for us to do when what we know in our heart conflicts with what we may experience outside of ourselves.  Trusting their inner guidance is a natural instinct for our children, but the problem comes from the messages children receive about what they think, feel and say by the actions of those around them.  The messages often teach children to doubt themselves and even more to ignore that inner guidance. The message is that children are often not fully heard.

In today’s world with so many hats to wear, I wonder how much time a parent has available to listen to their child?  Real listening means just that—no interruptions as your child speaks their thoughts and feelings.  We often want to fix their problems, finish their sentences or worst yet; we speak for our children not allowing them to express themselves.  Parents can be great teachers of intuition for their children by listening to them.  Learning to listen to your heart begins with learning to express yourself and feeling heard.

Children have even more pressure than we had when growing up.  It would be really useful for children to learn how to use their inner sense of guidance to help them make choices in their life.  You may be wondering, how can I help to teach my children to their intuition?  To empower your child’s intuitive nature, it is important to let them know that what they feel inside is what matters; here are some ways you can practice listening to your child:

• Practice giving your child your full attention each time they have something to share.  The key is to be fully present as they speak.         
• Allow your child to express themselves fully without interrupting them even if you don’t agree with what they have to say.  The key is to set parameters around how they speak to you; such as calmly and slowly.
• Set up a “date” with your child for them to speak with you. This will alleviate the times that life may get in the way.  Perhaps before dinner or before bed.  The key here is honor their spirit by making sure you keep the date.
• Teach your child to listen to their heart even if people disagree with them.  The key is that what they feel, think or know is more important than someone else’s opinion. 
•  Lead by example for your children.  The key here is to make sure you too are getting fully heard as well. 

One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is to listen to them and let them know they are being heard.  I noticed recently that when I am talking with my friends we have gotten to be way too comfortable with one another that we fail to give each other our undivided attention.  I have been making a point over the last several years to be more present in my life which includes giving my undivided attention when being the listener in the conversation.  I have even gone as far as telling the person that I am speaking with to call me back when they have a more convenient time to speak.   Think about a time in your life when you have not been listened to; even as an adult it doesn’t feel good to not be heard.  Start listening today!

Valentine's Day Message on Relationships

Happy Love Day to you all!

Just in time for Valentine’s Day 2014,  a message about relationships in this new energy.  The following is a conversation I had with my guides as a result of a conversation I had with a client awhile back.   I feel this information pertains to all of humanity not just the client so I’m sharing it with you—the timing has not been right to share, until now.  

Conversation with my Guides:

 

Guides:  What kind of relationship do you want?  Do you want old paradigm or new paradigm man?

Me:  What does that mean? 

Guides: Old paradigm is more of the same where people select each other based on physical, material means rather than soul, spiritual connection.  In the old paradigm, there is always an imbalance in energy.  People are unhappy, but they stay in the relationships because of old paradigm beliefs. That is to say that the belief that being in a relationship is not about you, when in fact, it is all about you.  There is a prevalent belief among humans that you do not need to be happy or in love to be or stay married.  New paradigm means you choose from the heart and know what you want. You realize that relationship is about you.  You choose to be with someone because you want to be not because you have to be in relationship.  In the old paradigm there are limits as to what can happen.  In the new paradigm there are no limits to what can happen.  As more and more people evolve into who they are, it becomes more evident that old energy does not work with the new energy; instead it creates problems in current relationships as each individual seeks to express who they really are.

Guides: She needs to change up her dating method. (Client is dating again.)  She must ground herself daily into the new energy.  This is to say that she needs to bring her spirit into the physical realm so that her choices come from her spirit not her head or old expectations of relationships.

Me: Ground your energy and bring into physical what you have learned? (I asked for clarification)

Guides: She needs to become more feminine. 

Me:  What?  She is female.

Guides:  She is female, but it is imperative that she embrace her divine feminine energy, that is who she is.  She has expressed masculine energy more so because that is what has been considered acceptable on the planet; it is the old paradigm.  Masculine Energy is all about being Proactive, Taking Care of what Needs to be done, Pushing forward, Independence, Get things done.

Me: Okay?

Guides:  Feminine Energy is about being open and vulnerable. 

Me:  Vulnerable?

Guides: Yes, humans think the word vulnerable implies weakness or inability to stand up for oneself or inability to be empowered.  Unfortunately, women have learned to be more masculine in this earth experience than they are meant to be.  It has been a patriarchal society for so long that women feel that it is necessary to take on the attributes of being a masculine energy when in reality it perpetuates what is not wanted and keeps both men and women locked into a reality that they no longer wish to experience.  Women are not meant to be competitive, fast forward or fixers.  Feminine energy is all about cooperation and love.  It is about strength and empowerment from their gifts of being who they are.

Me: How does it pertain to relationships? (Since that is what we were discussing—sometimes I have to bring my guides around to the point –they are like me/they are me so we ramble---so much to say!! lol)

Guides:  To be more feminine in this time on the earth means to be more open to receiving love and be more vulnerable. (This pertains to men and women---everyone has both masculine and feminine energy inside of them.)

Me: (Again I asked for clarification.  They informed me that one of the things that my guides wanted me to share and know as a result of my car accident was to be open to receiving and asking for help when I need it. More on that below.)

Guides: Be vulnerable.  It is that simple.  Be who you are in every moment.  No fixing it for others, no pretending you can do it all alone, no doing it all alone.  Simply be who you are as you are in any moment.  If you are happy, be happy; if you are sad, be sad.  Simply being more of who you are…means being who you are in every moment that you are.  It does not mean you are weak, it means you do not hide who you are.  The power is in being you in every moment; that is what we mean by vulnerable.

Me: hmmm.  I love it.  I was thinking hmmm…human terms:  Wonder what that all means.  For all you women who try to be strong, be on your own, do it all yourself, accept a relationship that is not making you happy keeping that stiff upper lip--you are expressing a masculine vibe.  For those of you (men and women) who want a relationship in the new paradigm, you will want to express your feminine energy to attract your counterpart.  It means asking for help when it is needed. It means you do not have to do it all alone.  It means you can need another person.  It means it gives your human masculine counterpart a job, something for them to partner with.

Guides:  It isn’t that masculine energy comes in to save you, but yes it does.  It means that you get to express your feminine self.  Being you at any and all given moments, shows your vulnerability—it shows who you truly are.  That is what is attractive to your masculine counterparts, of the new paradigm, to see you, as you are.  If you have it all taken care of, then there is no need to cooperate with another.

Me: Any last thoughts about relationships?

Guides: The new paradigm is all about bringing love to the forefront of your human reality. If it is not love, the relationship will not last nor may not even begin.  The intention with which one goes forward in a relationship is set within their consciousness; therefore, as their consciousness expands so too does their ability to manifest the perfect, balanced love relationship for them.

On a personal note, my beloved twinflame (who I will refer to as twin throughout this note) has had the opportunity to see me in a way that he has not.  This car accident rendered me vulnerable. It didn’t make me helpless or weak. It simply allowed me to be where I was in how I was. Of course, I had plenty of people telling me how I should be and I didn’t listen to one—I chose to be where I was during the whole time and as a result I definitely feel I climbed several steps up the ladder to ascension these past months.

Back to twin, he has always seen me as ok.  Whenever something would go wrong, his words to me were “I know you are ok,  you are always ok.”  Meanwhile I felt like I was anything but ok during those times—the truth was I was always the strong one and could do it all on my own.  Show my vulnerability, are you crazy?  I used to think that isn’t happening, I would get hurt and open to getting hurt.  What I didn’t realize was that I was closed to getting hurt, but closed to letting love in.  I was closed to needing help, but closed to receiving the love I needed/wanted too!  This car accident showed me that I was not meant to be closed—I was meant to be where I was at that moment and this time period definitely gave me a lot of practice.  I also gave him the opportunity to be the masculine vibe.  It never occurred to me that I hadn’t allowed him to be the masculine vibe until this past year when he stepped in and was able to do something for me.  It made him feel really good about himself (like he is the man because he helped me, but not in a macho way, a good way) and allowed him to show me his love. 

Now, it was much easier for me to be vulnerable because I wasn’t exactly in the place of I’m okay and I can do it all by myself.  I even allowed him to hear me cry (something I was afraid would push him away); instead he stayed and listened to me. I treasure those moments because in those moments I allowed him to love me and allowed me to really feel the love he has for me.   This new paradigm energy is about giving because you want to and can; and receiving because you deserve it and you allow it.  Those are the simplest lessons we can take from this life.

It makes me think back to a story about a friend. Many years ago she told me that her husband had never seen her without make-up—she would wake up early and put it on before he would see her.  Really?  I thought it was ridiculous even back then; but what is more ridiculous is how truly sad it is how she limited herself.  Love is all about acceptance and that is what this energy is all about. Accepting you as you are, but even more accepting others as they become more of who they are. Oh yes, that leaves room for lots transitions and changes, but dear ones that is what you came here for.---to change the world and move into this new paradigm with a love relationship that matches it.  By the way…it is simply all about remembering not discovering because you already know all of this deep down inside you.  You just forgot.

With Love and remembrance,

EstaRa

Happy Valentine's Day!!